Betrayals come from the closest

The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemy. 

                                                                                                 -Unknown

Why does that happen? May be you expect too much from someone, someone close? 

And what happens once you are betrayed? You lose trust. You lose respect and faith. 

Is it easy for you to re-trust the person? May be, yes. Or may be, not. Well, it does definitely take time.  It is an overwhelming emotion. 

Betrayal comes  from the closest may be because you blindly trust the person in every decision. And suddenly you stop trusting everyone after that one incident. Is it the right thing to do? May be not. Because everybody is not the same. 

Before being betrayed, you took decisions by following your heart. Whereas after betrayal, everything is thought twice before deciding. 

What could be a possible solution to this problem? Revenge is definitely not the solution.  

May be giving some time to the person who has betrayed you, at the same time taking sometime out for yourself and distancing yourself to think over what has happened. 

Careful, do not overthink !